I dont want anyone to tell me to move out of texas unless they are offering a job or buckets of money

I think we should be moving to you. Plenty of places are 80% or more blue and people are literally throwing their own votes away while castigating people for staying in places where their votes actually mean something. So they can stfu and come help you flip it. Here is the visual:

Ps, I did this within my own state because I could, and it wasn't that hard. I negotiated part time WFH and have a long commute 2 days a week. Other people can find solutions for their situations and it's very doable for many folks who rent in cities and have decent income.