There’s little to no nuance in the poor people having kids discussion. Y’all yelling at homegirl for saying it but at the same time wondering what business is going to sponsor your kids summer camp fees. There’s a lot of middle ground there that no one wants to talk about 🤷🏾♀️
I think good conversations can be had though...It just hits a point so fast where shit gets out of hand and then there's no convo...It's just straight to the grill lol
I think what’s not being mentioned is previous circumstances/effort. If you had the income and then got laid off that’s one thing. You genuinely tried. And you’re trying to get back on the horse Vs. You were struggling to afford just you and then you had a baby without any thought of support
May 14, 2025 14:43Yep a family could have just found out they were having a child in January with one currently in child care...And both could be government employees and been let go and knew none of this was coming...Like I knew what she was saying...Just ain't enough letters left to type it all out lol
