Being *so close* to the boundary or expectation you clearly set is not, in fact, respecting the boundary or expectation.
Never let anyone convince you otherwise and never compromise.
Period.
Act accordingly.
I have had multiple discussions recently about what is acceptable levels of empathy and how many chances someone gets.
After years of giving the benefit of the doubt, being understanding, and trusting the other person to be as invested and collaborative as you - nah.
They tell you immediately.
Mar 14, 2025 06:25Fafo.
You get one chance. If you communicate clearly and openly your expectations, your desires, and your boundaries - if they care they will respond accordingly.
Excuses to the contrary are an example of their unwillingness to meet you where you are. Understand your value.
Do. Not. Compromise.
And if they choose to fall short, deflect, blame shift, or be the victim - cut them out. They are not worth it and are incapable of meeting you.
Know your worth. Know your love. Know your boundaries. Anyone who fights you is actively seeking to sabotage you.
I say this as someone who gave too much, accepted too little, and paid dearly for it.
Do. Not. Compromise. And if it is too late today - let tomorrow be the day you stand up for yourself and be uncompromising in what you need and expect from the people you choose to keep close.
