They aren’t your soulmate. No matter how much it felt like it, they just aren’t. Your actual soulmate wouldn’t speak to you that way. Period. You wouldn’t be searching for answers on the internet and ending up in abuse survivor groups if they were good to you. 1/3

Love is supposed to feel good. Not perfect: good, safe. You got into this because you’re a romantic. You believe in the power of love. And maybe that’s what’s keeping you stuck or coming back, believing the transformative power of love will heal them/your connection. 2/3